The Shift
a reflection on loss, motherhood, and the moment that changed how i learned to advocate for myself.
jahcollectivelegac
2 days ago2 min read
The Price Tag on Becoming
There’s a cost to becoming who you’re becoming. And sometimes we're caught off guard without having prepared for that part. Not the glow-up. Not the change in capacity. Not the rearranged approach to thinking, and to life. I'm talking about the Cost. The Price. Le Prix. Sometimes the cost is people who loved an earlier version of you — but don’t know how to meet you where you are now. Sometimes it’s comfort, familiarity. Sometimes it’s the version of yourself that was condi
jahcollectivelegac
Dec 30, 20252 min read
The Quiet Goodbyes
What started as a letter, ended up as a reflection on the unspoken grief of friendships that suddenly stop choosing us back. I didn’t know if I would ever write this (let alone share it), but as the year winds down, I’ve been sitting with what I’m choosing to release — and what I’m choosing to carry with me into this next version of my life. And expectedly, you came to mind. Not because I’m holding on, but because I'm finally feeling ready to let go. When our friendship ended
jahcollectivelegac
Dec 6, 20252 min read